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    Exploring Borders: Moving Abroad

    July 12, 2024

    Exploring Borders: Moving Abroad? Deciding to move abroad is a thrilling prospect that opens up a world of possibilities. Whether you’re drawn to adventure, cultural exploration, career opportunities, or a change in lifestyle, living outside of the US can be a transformative experience. However, it’s essential to approach this decision with careful consideration and planning […]

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    Exploring Borders: Moving Abroad

    July 12, 2024

    Exploring Borders: Moving Abroad?

    Deciding to move abroad is a thrilling prospect that opens up a world of possibilities. Whether you’re drawn to adventure, cultural exploration, career opportunities, or a change in lifestyle, living outside of the US can be a transformative experience. However, it’s essential to approach this decision with careful consideration and planning to ensure a smooth transition and enjoyable stay in your new home.

    Where to move?

    Whether you’re dreaming of a quaint European town, bustling Asian metropolis, or serene beachside retreat, moving abroad can turn your dreams into reality. Consider attending some life or career counseling prior to making your move.

    Here are some key factors to ponder before making the leap:

    1. Cultural Adjustment:
    Moving abroad means immersing yourself in a new culture, which can be both enriching and challenging. Consider the cultural differences in language, social norms, food, and daily customs. Take time to learn about the local culture, traditions, and etiquette to foster understanding and integration.

    2. Visa and Legal Requirements:
    When exploring borders and moving abroad, ensure you understand the visa and residency requirements of your chosen country. Research the necessary permits, visas, and any legal documentation needed to live and work there legally. Consulting with immigration experts or the embassy of your destination country can provide clarity on these matters.

    3. Cost of Living:
    Research the cost of living in your destination country, including housing, utilities, groceries, healthcare, and transportation. Consider how your income (if you’re working remotely or locally) or savings will translate in the new environment. Factor in currency exchange rates and potential fluctuations.

    4. Healthcare and Insurance:
    Investigate the healthcare system in your new country. Determine if you need private health insurance or if public healthcare is accessible to expatriates. Understand what coverage is available and how it compares to what you’re accustomed to in the US.

    5. Employment and Income:
    If you’re moving abroad for work, secure a job offer or understand the job market in your field. Research potential employers, networking opportunities, and how your skills and qualifications align with local demands. If you’re relocating without a job, explore options for remote work, freelance opportunities, or starting a business.

    6. Education and Family Considerations:
    When exploring borders and moving abroad, consider the quality of education options in your destination country. Understand the schooling system, language of instruction, and any requirements for enrollment. Additionally, consider the impact of the move on your family and discuss potential challenges and opportunities together.

    7. Language and Communication:
    Language can be a significant barrier or bridge when living abroad. Evaluate your proficiency in the local language and consider language classes or immersion programs to enhance your communication skills. Even in countries where English is widely spoken, learning the local language can greatly enrich your experience.

    8. Social Support and Community:
    Building a social network in your new country is crucial for emotional support and integration. Seek out expatriate communities, local clubs, or hobby groups that align with your interests. Engaging with locals and fellow expatriates can help you navigate cultural differences and feel more at home.

    9. Legal and Tax Implications:
    Understand the legal implications of living abroad, including tax obligations in both your home country (such as filing requirements for US citizens) and your new country of residence. Consult tax advisors or professionals who specialize in expatriate tax matters to ensure compliance and minimize any potential financial burdens.

    10. Personal Adjustment and Expectations:
    Moving abroad is a significant life change that requires flexibility, adaptability, and a positive mindset. Be prepared for moments of homesickness, cultural shock, or logistical challenges. Embrace the adventure with realistic expectations and an openness to new experiences.

    Conclusion:
    Moving abroad can be a transformative journey filled with opportunities for personal growth, career advancement, and cultural enrichment. By considering these factors – from cultural adaptation and legal requirements to financial planning and personal expectations – you can embark on your international adventure with confidence and preparation. Remember, each destination offers its own unique charm and challenges, so approach your move abroad with curiosity, resilience, and a spirit of exploration. All things considered, take time and explore different areas, experience different cultures, and enjoy safe travels.

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    Ending a relationship with a Narcissist

    November 5, 2023

    Ending a relationship with a Narcissist Ending a relationship can be a difficult and emotionally taxing process under any circumstances. However, when you find yourself entangled with a narcissist, breaking free can become a complex and challenging process. Narcissists exhibit a range of manipulative and controlling behaviors, making it crucial to navigate the process with […]

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    Ending a relationship with a Narcissist

    November 5, 2023

    Ending a relationship with a Narcissist

    Ending a relationship can be a difficult and emotionally taxing process under any circumstances. However, when you find yourself entangled with a narcissist, breaking free can become a complex and challenging process. Narcissists exhibit a range of manipulative and controlling behaviors, making it crucial to navigate the process with care and consideration. In this blog, we’ll discuss the steps to help you end a relationship with a narcissist while protecting your well-being.

    1. Recognize the Signs of Narcissism

    Before you can effectively disentangle yourself from a narcissistic relationship, it’s essential to recognize the signs of narcissistic behavior. Narcissists often display traits such as a constant need for attention, a lack of empathy, manipulative tendencies, and a sense of entitlement. Understanding these behaviors is the first step to empowerment.

    2.  Seek Support From Friends and Family

    Reaching out to friends, family members, or a therapist can be instrumental in helping you end a relationship with a narcissist. It’s common for narcissists to isolate their partners and undermine their self-esteem. A support network can provide emotional validation and guidance during this challenging time.

    3.  Set Boundaries

    Narcissists often violate personal boundaries and engage in controlling behaviors. Establish clear and firm boundaries to protect yourself. Communicate your boundaries assertively, and be prepared to enforce them. This may lead to resistance from the narcissist, but stay resolute.

    4.  Plan Your Exit Strategy

    Exiting a relationship with a narcissist should be a well-thought-out process.  Create a plan that includes practical steps to ensure your safety and well-being. This plan may involve finding a safe place to stay, securing your financial resources, and seeking legal advice if needed.

    5.  No Contact Rule

    Implement the “no contact” rule as soon as you can. Narcissists thrive on attention and control, and cutting off all communication is the most effective way to disempower them. Block their calls, texts, and social media accounts. If you must communicate, keep it minimal and focused on essential matters.

    6.  Stay Strong and Focused

    Narcissists are adept at manipulation, and they may attempt to hoover you back into the relationship with promises of change or guilt trips. It’s essential to remain steadfast in your decision and stay focused on your well-being and personal growth.

    7.  Self-Care and Healing

    After ending a relationship with a narcissist, prioritize self-care and healing. Seek therapy or counseling to address any emotional trauma you may have experienced. Reconnect with your passions, interests, and hobbies to rebuild your self-esteem.

    8.  Learn from the Experience

    Conclusion:

    Use this difficult experience as an opportunity for personal growth and self-reflection. Understand the red flags you missed and the patterns of behavior you tolerated. This self-awareness can help you make better choices in future relationships.  Ending a relationship with a narcissist is a challenging and emotional journey, but it’s a necessary step toward reclaiming your life and well-being. By recognizing the signs, seeking support, setting boundaries, and planning your exit carefully, you can regain control and start on the path to healing and personal growth. Remember, you deserve a healthy and fulfilling relationship, and by taking these steps, you can break free from the grasp of a narcissist and move towards a brighter future.

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    Practice of the Practice Podcast ~ Episode 93 & 94

    November 10, 2021

    I want to take this opportunity to thank Alison Pidgeon @alisonpidgeon  for interviewing me for the Practice of the Practice ~ Grow a Group Practice Podcast ~ Follow @PracticeofthePractice.  My interview will be available on 11/11/2021.  My passion is connecting with other therapists that are interested in growing and scaling their individual & group counseling practices.  I […]

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    Practice of the Practice Podcast ~ Episode 93 & 94

    November 10, 2021

    Practice of the Practice Podcast

    The Practice of the Practice ~ Episode 93

    Practice of the Practice

    I want to take this opportunity to thank Alison Pidgeon @alisonpidgeon  for interviewing me for the Practice of the Practice ~ Grow a Group Practice Podcast ~ Follow @PracticeofthePractice.  My interview will be available on 11/11/2021.  My passion is connecting with other therapists that are interested in growing and scaling their individual & group counseling practices.  I look forward to supporting my coaching clients on their journey of exploring business ownership and helping them take their practices to the next level.  As a Private Practice Strategist, I am here to support you on your journey.  Please reach out with any questions as you take the leap into building your dream counseling practice.


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    Reimbursify Claims Processing

    September 8, 2021

    Reimbursify for out-of-network claim reimbursement.  Reimbursify is a program that you can use to help submit for reimbursement from your health insurance plan for any out-of-network claims.   The Reimbursify program can be used to help you simplify all of your out-of-network claims processing for different providers that you or your family members see for medical […]

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    Reimbursify Claims Processing

    September 8, 2021

    ReimbursifhyReimbursify for out-of-network claim reimbursement.  Reimbursify is a program that you can use to help submit for reimbursement from your health insurance plan for any out-of-network claims.   The Reimbursify program can be used to help you simplify all of your out-of-network claims processing for different providers that you or your family members see for medical services.  You can try Reimbursify for free by submitting your first claim through their website.

    Submit your claim through Reimbursify

    Reimbursify.com’s website states, “Built on our decades of experience in the healthcare industry, Reimbursify’s proprietary claim-filing process ensures efficient submissions that get reimbursed fast.”  Reimbursify works for any out-of-network, therapist, doctor office, specialist, and with any insurance company.  It will be important for you to ask your provider for a Detailed Receipt / Superbill.  This form will need to have the following information on the form in order for your claims to process correctly the first time.

    Invoice Must Include

    • Client Name
    • Client Date of Birth
    • Client Address
    • Provider Tax ID
    • Provider NPI #
    • Insurance Company Name
    • Insurance Company ID #
    • Diagnosis and ICD Code
    • Procedure Code
    • The amount you paid the provider for your appointment

    Out-of-Network Benefits

    If you have out-of-network insurance benefits you can contact your insurance directly by calling the phone number on the back of your insurance card.  You can then confirm with the member services department directly to find out what percent of the payment you made to each provider will be reimbursed if any.   Ex. Some plans may reimburse 60% to 90% of the approved rate that your insurance sets for that procedure code based on your specific insurance plan and the state where you reside.

    Disclaimer

    Kathleen Coughlin has not directly used Reimbursify and Reimbursify.com in the past.  It is important for you to contact your Health Insurance directly to learn about your specific out-of-network benefits.  Reimbursify out-of-network claim reimbursement questions can be directed by email to  https://reimbursify.com/contact-us.  Our office is sharing this information based on the recommendation of other clients.  Our office has registered our providers with Reimbursify to help expedite your claims processing.

     

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    Coparenting and Divorce

    Coparenting 101

    September 4, 2021

    One of the most difficult transitions in life to face is perhaps a divorce or separation from a partner with whom you have children.  This is where Coparenting 101 will help support parents in raising a well-adjusted child.  Divorce or separation can be painful for the parents and children.  Children are looking to their parents […]

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    Coparenting 101

    September 4, 2021

    Children of Divorce

    One of the most difficult transitions in life to face is perhaps a divorce or separation from a partner with whom you have children.  This is where Coparenting 101 will help support parents in raising a well-adjusted child.  Divorce or separation can be painful for the parents and children.  Children are looking to their parents for emotional reassurance. No matter their age, the separation of one’s parents is a difficult challenge to face.  It can also be challenging to co-parent with an ex-partner.

    Work Together As Parents

    The truth is, if the children are young, you have many years ahead of you of working through the potentially awkward, definitely uncomfortable unyielding, and the formidable realm of parenting responsibilities. Co-parenting requires empathy, patience, and open communication for success. Despite the difficulty, it is crucial that you and your co-parent are on the same page.  It is important to work together when it comes to parenting strategies with little ones and teens alike.  Here are some best practices to keep in mind when planning your parenting strategy.

    Interactive Coparenting Techniques

    Communicate Consistently

    Arrange to do this through whichever medium works best for your family, be it email, texting, letters, or face-to-face conversation. There are even some apps you can download directly to your phone where you can upload schedules, share information, and communicate with parents. However, It is imperative that your child is not used as the primary source of information.

    Rules Between Homes

    Children thrive under routine and structure, especially when in the midst of a confusing divorce or separation. Issues like mealtime, bedtime, and completing chores should be consistent. This sense of security and predictability for children will help to protect against future manipulation and pitting co-parents against one another. Research shows that children in homes with a unified parenting approach have greater well-being.

    Commit to Positive Talk

    Model for your children that you wish for them to have a positive relationship with the other parent. Make it a rule to not talk disrespectfully about the other parent.  With your extended family make sure that they are aware that negative talk is not allowed around the children.  Focusing on the positive qualities of your co-parent will also allow your children to do the same. Times of great transition in our lives are also times of great learning, for both you and your children. The transition will test the depth of your maturity and patience. Your children will need you there to support them as they deal with painful emotions. As always, remember that despite the pain of the separation or divorce, you are the parent, and it is your job to rise above the temptations that may present themselves.

    Do not expose children to conflict

    Of course, the pain of separation will be tough on you, and it is absolutely fine for you to seek support (or therapy of your own). However, no matter how good of a listener they are, your child does not need to be subject to the emotionally charged issues surrounding the divorce or separation. Research shows that allowing children to be in the middle of adult issues promotes a sense of helplessness and insecurity. This rule also stands for attempting to use your children as bartering chips in an all-out war.  Coparenting 101 encourages the parents to talk with one another and now place the children in the middle of the conflict.

    Balanced Vs. Unbalanced Parent

    Resist the temptation to be the “cool parent” when your children are with you. This tends to only serve to create a cycle of resentment, hostility, and resistance to rules that will surely become an issue later on in life. By allowing your child to wiggle out of responsibility, you might get the desired result at first, but it turns out you are creating more challenges for your children in the long run. Consistency is key in successful transitions from household to household.  Coparenting 101- get down to the basics and coparent for the best interest of your children.

    Communicate, do not jump to conclusions

    When you get word of something your co-parent did from your children, take a breath and remain quiet. Remember that it’s always good to remain neutral when things like this happen, as your child can learn to resent and distrust you if you cheer them on. On this note, pursue clarification with your co-parent if an aspect of their parenting style is troubling to you.

    Set yourself up for success

    If it is difficult to have constructive conversations with the other parent because of your history together, think of it as a working business relationship. Use those positive communication skills, and practice the message you want to get across without pointing fingers or blaming them into a defensive stance where little will get accomplished.

    Do not give in to guilt – It is easy to see how tempting it may be to allow negative feelings about not being in your child’s life on a full-time basis, or for putting them in a difficult situation to easily convert into acts of overindulgence to “make up” for a “broken home”. Learn how to express empathy for your children and their feelings about the situation, but set limits and remain consistent. Research shows that without limits, children can become self-centered, lack empathy, and be left unrestrained, which will lead to an inflated sense of entitlement.

    Work Together Vs. Work Against One

    If it has not become abundantly apparent, working through a separation and figuring out how to co-parent well is decidedly one of the most important events that will impact the development of a child. Equally apparent is the amount of willpower and strength it requires to lead your children through such a challenge into healthy adjustment. You may find it helpful to recruit a counselor who has helped countless families navigate these very same waters either to help process your feelings about the separation or to help establish a co-parenting strategy with the other parent.

    We are here to teach you the Coparenting 101 skills and support your family during this transition.  Please call our office at 610-248-0059 to schedule an appointment today.

    This blog was written and prepared by Rachel O’Connor.

     

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    Start, Scale, Sell Your Practice

    June 13, 2021

    Start, Scale, Sell Your Practice  Know that your practice is an asset!   I offer Concierge Coaching for behavioral health practitioners, Solo Therapists wanting to build a group practice, Small and Large Group Practices that are preparing to be acquired.  Collaborating with Experts in the mental health field to help you to grow and build your counseling […]

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    Start, Scale, Sell Your Practice

    June 13, 2021

    Start Scale Sell Your PracticeStart, Scale, Sell Your Practice 

    Know that your practice is an asset!  

    I offer Concierge Coaching for behavioral health practitioners, Solo Therapists wanting to build a group practice, Small and Large Group Practices that are preparing to be acquired.  Collaborating with Experts in the mental health field to help you to grow and build your counseling practices.  Please connect with me to discuss the goals of your practice.

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    Managing Working from Home

    Tips Managing Working from Home

    April 11, 2020

    Below are some tips managing working from home.  These strategies may help you create a sense of structure, routine, consistency, and perhaps a boost in your emotional health.  Prior to the COVID-19 Virus, home was where we would spend time with our family members.  For many of us it has recently become our workplace, the […]

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    Tips Managing Working from Home

    April 11, 2020

    Below are some tips managing working from home.  These strategies may help you create a sense of structure, routine, consistency, and perhaps a boost in your emotional health.  Prior to the COVID-19 Virus, home was where we would spend time with our family members.  For many of us it has recently become our workplace, the classroom, and maybe even the gym.

    It may be helpful to dedicate a space in your home to create a makeshift work environment for the time being.  Life transitions and changes continue to transform how we manage our lives a little more each week.

    Ask yourself the following questions:

    How am I managing the transition to working at home?
    How am I adjusting to not socializing with friends and co-workers?
    How am I feeling now that I cannot attend classes or go to gym?

    Tips for Managing Working from Home

    1. Dedicated Workspace.
      If you do not have a separate office, choose to work in an area where there is natural light and a comfortable chair.  Consider turning off distractions like television and consider listening to relaxing music.
    2. Think Details.
      Try to establish a workspace like you had at your office.  The space may be smaller, but you will need to have access to the basics to perform your job. Think about bringing home your favorite pen or coffee mug.  You can also add some live plants to your workspace.
    3. Outline Your Work Hours
      You may want to write on a whiteboard or paper your start time, lunch time, break, and end time.  This will help family members learn your new schedule.  It is helpful to limit the amount of interruptions in the day.  Consider writing down goals and tasks that you want to complete each day.
    4. Familiar Routine.
      Finally, consider your daily wardrobe. It is hard to take work seriously in pajamas, but you do not necessarily have to wear a suit either. Try throwing on your usual work shirt and comfortable pants. This may help you to transition into a mindset to focus on productivity and timelines.

    If you need someone to talk to during this uncertain time it may be helpful to reach out for professional counseling.  Telehealth Counseling is available from the comfort of your home. Telehealth Counseling may be approved by your health insurance or employee assistance company.

    If you have questions related to your counseling benefits, please feel free to contact our office at 386-449-8600 or by Email: Info@OceanVistaCounsel.com.

    To learn more about the Online Telehealth Counseling Program please click here.

    To learn more about COVID-19, please visit the Centers for Disease Control.

    This blog was prepared by Emilia DaSilva, LMHC.

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    COVID 19

    Psychological Impact COVID-19

    April 10, 2020

    We are all experiencing the psychological impact of COVID-19 during this uncertain time locally and globally.  Individually, people are experiencing an emotional impact based on the life changes occurring around them.  We can remain socially united as a community by supporting one another during this global crisis. Common Terms: Social Isolation, Self-Isolation, Social Distancing and […]

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    Psychological Impact COVID-19

    April 10, 2020

    We are all experiencing the psychological impact of COVID-19 during this uncertain time locally and globally.  Individually, people are experiencing an emotional impact based on the life changes occurring around them.  We can remain socially united as a community by supporting one another during this global crisis.

    Common Terms: Social Isolation, Self-Isolation, Social Distancing and Physical Separation

    The terms Social Isolation, Self-Isolation, Social Distancing, and Physical Separation, have changed how we interact with one another.  Many people have gone from working full-time to being furloughed or laid off.  Others have gone from working in an office environment to being socially isolated working from home.

    Symptom Monitoring

    Psychological Impact COVID-19 can take a toll on your emotional health and the emotional health of  loved ones.  Common psychological symptoms and reactions may include: anxiety, depression, fear of leaving the house, excessive worry, feeling overwhelmed, increased substance use, loneliness, obsessive-compulsive behaviors, racing thoughts, social withdrawal, sleep issues, stress, and other symptoms.   Moderate to severe symptoms include: suicidal ideation, suicide attempts, completed suicide, increased substance use and abuse, post-traumatic stress responses, self-harming behavior, and substance abuse overdoses.  Focus on prevention, if you know someone experiencing an increase in mental health symptoms. Listen with an empathetic ear, show care and compassion, and connect them with professional supports.

    Grief and Loss

    The general population is experiencing symptoms of depression, fear, and anxiety based on the global pandemic.  Other families are experiencing a deeper trauma losing a loved one to the COVID-19 virus.  Due to the health & safety of patients, hospitals have needed to limit visitors in the facility.  In some cases family members are not able to be present physically to console loved ones in their final moments.  This is very difficult for the patient and their family members, leaving living relatives with complex grief and trauma.  Health Care Providers have been going the extra mile to console patients and connect family members through FaceTime to say their final goodbyes.

    Continued Efforts to Protect Health Care Providers

    To continue to curb the spread of the virus, we continue to practice social distancing.  Consider the doctors, nurses, and essential workers that are risking their own health every day.  These providers are working diligently to save lives, they are also experiencing their own psychological impact from their careers.  It is our civic duty to follow the recommendations of the healthcare community.  These professionals continue to work each day to combat this global pandemic.

    “Gratitude turns what we have into enough, and more.  It turns denial into acceptance, chaos into order, confusion into clarity… it makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow.” – Melody Beattie

    Words of Encouragement

    Practice an Attitude of Gratitude, Live Your Life with Intention, and Purpose.   This pause in our country has given us time to evaluate what is important.  We now may have more free time that can be used to explore healthy self-care strategies.  Consider new opportunities where we can make intentional decisions about our future.

    We all wish to return to life as we knew it.  The psychological impact is strong and impacts people of all ages.  Make an effort to reach out to your neighbor.  Say hello to someone when you pass them on your bike or smile at a stranger.  Even a simple smile may be meaningful to a person that does not have any other social contact.   Many people are experiencing loneliness and intense grief and loss.

    Focus on mental health wellness, check your psychological pulse, and monitor your symptoms.  Develop a routine by getting enough sleep, maintaining healthy nutrition, and carving out time for exercise.

    Create Virtual Gatherings

    Be creative and increase social contact virtually with family and friends during this period of social isolation.  We can reach out to family and friends by phone calls, text messages, or FaceTime.  Schedule a virtual trivia night or dinner by using applications like Zoom, Houseparty, or Google Duo.

    Quick Tips to Prioritize Your Mental Health Wellness

    • Practice an Attitude of Gratitude
    • Focus on the positive things within your control
    • Exercise: walk, bike, practice yoga
    • Practice healthy eating and drink water
    • Take a break for fresh air and sunshine
    • Keep in contact with family and friends
    • Engage in hobbies and interests: Art, Journal Writing, Reading, etc.
    • Decrease your exposure to news, social media, and television
    • Monitor sleep hygiene and sleep habits
    • Take your medication and vitamins if prescribed
    • Focus on your personal quality of life
    • Schedule a Telehealth Counseling session with a Licensed Counselor if needed

    New Normal?

    What will be your new normal?  This is a question that will be answered over time and it will be different for each person.  During this time, stay strong, reach out to your support system, and monitor your psychological pulse.

    Access Counseling and Supportive Services

    There are multiple ways to receive access to mental health and substance abuse counseling.  Ask your Human Resources Department if they have an Employee Assistance Program (EAP).  These programs offer FREE Telehealth Counseling sessions for employees and their family members.  Telehealth Counseling is also offered as a service by most private insurance companies.  You can contact a local Licensed Counselor to schedule a Telehealth Counseling appointment.

    Telephone Hotlines

    The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline offers a 24/7 free and confidential service -1-800-273-8255.  The Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) offers a free and confidential helpline for people struggling with addiction or mental health concerns – 800-662-4357.  If you require immediate psychiatric intervention, please dial 911 or go to the nearest emergency room.

    To learn more about the counseling services offered at our office please visit our Telehealth Counseling Page.

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    Telehealth Counseling COVID 19

    Your Mental Health During COVID 19

    April 1, 2020

    We have put together a list of some tips to manage your mental health during COVID 19.  Current events can add unnecessary stress to our lives, especially if you are someone that worries about the status of the world in general. News and media meant to provide information can lead to excessive worry and fear. […]

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    Your Mental Health During COVID 19

    April 1, 2020

    We have put together a list of some tips to manage your mental health during COVID 19.  Current events can add unnecessary stress to our lives, especially if you are someone that worries about the status of the world in general. News and media meant to provide information can lead to excessive worry and fear. An abundance of social media posts from friends and family can add to the stress that may overwhelm and impact our emotional health.

    If you are starting your day with news that causes fear and stress, spending free time scrolling through social media posts, having minimal social interactions, you may find that your nervous system in a constant state of arousal. This can lead to anxiety and cause disruptions in our sleep patterns.  Our immune system can be compromised when our bodies struggle to find ways to wind down. In order to stay healthy and do what you can to take care of your mental health, find ways to calm your system and clear your mind.  You might be asking how can we calm down our bodies and anxious thoughts during a time of stress and uncertainty?

    1. Get some exercise. Take a walk. You don’t have to touch anyone or anything. Spend some time moving around. Get some Vitamin D from the sunlight and try to clear your thoughts. You may want to listen to music or a podcast. Try to walk or ride a bike and notice the fresh air, listen to the sounds of nature, and enjoy yourself. Use this time to lower the amount of information that you are bombarded with. Notice what is around you. The grass will continue growing and the flowers will bloom even when so much feels out of our control. 
    2. If you choose not to go outside, you can move around inside the house. Whether you find an at-home workout online or just walk around the house more.  If you have mobility challenges, you can also do stretches from a seated position.  Moving helps release the stress that your body is holding. Take ten minutes to stretch, breathing deeply while you do so. As you stretch your muscles and breathe into the movement, imagine your breath moving through your muscles and releasing the tension that you have been holding onto.
    3. Focus on what you can control, not what is out of your control. You cannot control that the virus happened. You cannot force others to abide by CDC and government recommendations. You CAN choose to limit your interaction with news or posts that increase your stress. You can practice the suggested hygiene habits. You are in control of how you interact with others and if you decide to avoid gatherings and public places.
    4. Create something. Color a coloring sheet, draw a picture, paint, or find things around your house that you can use to make some kind of craft. This gives you a sense of control, productivity, as well as a creative outlet.
    5. Eat something delicious. If you have more time available, you might have time to make a nice meal. Enjoy it! Try to eat some vegetables to nourish your body and fuel your immune system while you’re at it.
    6. Take your medicine as prescribed. If you are on any medications, make sure that you have your prescriptions filled and are taking your medications as prescribed. If you are having any issues, call the physician that prescribed the medication or call your pharmacy.
    7. Drink enough water. Staying home seems like a time to drink whatever you feel like, but make sure to be caring for your mind and body by staying hydrated.  In an effort to keep your immune system strong, it is important to stay hydrated and eat well.  Practicing both will help you manage your mental health during COVID-19.
    8. Realize that social distancing does not mean social isolation. Call your friends and family. You can utilize applications like Facetime, Google Hangouts, or Whats App to keep in contact with family members. Spend time with anyone that you live with. Smile or wave at others if you are outside.  Isolation can lead to depression, anxiety, or negative feelings. We can continue to interact with friends and family members by using the applications listed above to check in.
    9. Take advantage of the extra time. Fewer social obligations means that you have more time for personal projects around your home. Spring cleaning, painting, going through some old clothes that you can donate.  Clearing clutter can often be a way to help clear your mind and feel a little bit better about the day.
    10. Find ways to give back. Bring prepared food to someone that may be homebound or older. Donate some items. Send someone a nice card. By doing something for someone else it may help distract you, generating feelings of positivity and connectedness.
    11. Seek Telehealth Counseling Support.  If you need someone to talk to during this stressful time it may be helpful to reach out for professional counseling.  Telehealth Counseling is available.  Managing your mental health during COVID-19 is vital to keep yourself healthy. Telehealth Counseling may be approved by your insurance company during this time.  Please feel free to contact our office directly at 610-248-0059 or by Email: Kcoughlnlcsw@gmail.com.

    To learn more about the Online Telehealth Counseling Program at Ocean Vista Counseling please click here.

    To learn more about COVID-19 please visit the Centers for Disease Control by clicking here.

     

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